The Tennis Parent’s Bible

Most parents invest significant time, money, and energy into developing their children’s fundamental tennis strokes, primarily focusing on “how to hit the ball.”

However, in today’s competitive game, lack of success often stems not from technical shortcomings but from an insufficient understanding of “how to play.” Building a game based on a child’s unique strengths—such as their size, strength, and speed—is crucial. Moreover, many young players lack the mental and emotional development needed to handle adversity, disappointments, injuries, and losses. Championship tennis, in many ways, mirrors life on a grand scale.

Frank Giampaolo’s *The Tennis Parent’s Bible* is an invaluable resource, guiding parents and coaches through the mental and emotional complexities of nurturing a tennis athlete. Despite being published some time ago, its advice remains timeless and highly relevant.

This comprehensive guide equips parents to become world-class tennis supporters. After all, parents need to learn and grow too!

I can relate. One of my sons was a top-ranked junior player in Australia (#1 in New South Wales) before we relocated to the U.S. Competitive tennis is undoubtedly a demanding journey for kids.

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Why Is My Game So Inconsistent, Especially as I Get Older?

A question we hear often is why performance can vary so much—especially as we age.

What’s the common thread amid changing conditions, fresh tennis balls, and different opponent styles? It’s your ability to watch the ball. In fact, research shows that 90% of errors result from players not tracking the ball effectively.

The good news? It’s never too late (or too early) to refine your ball-watching skills. Here are a few essential tips to help you focus better and stabilize your performance.

1. Identify Your Dominant Eye

Most players have a dominant eye that influences shot preference, often favoring the forehand side. Knowing which eye is dominant can help you understand tendencies in your game. How do you determine eye dominance? Try this: extend your arm, make a small circle with your fingers, and focus on a distant object through the circle. Close one eye at a time; the eye that keeps the object centered is your dominant eye.

2. Align for Better Tracking

To minimize the effects of eye dominance, position yourself at a right angle to the incoming ball’s direction, particularly on returns and volleys. If you watch players like the pros,  you’ll notice how they adjust their return positions depending on whether they’re on the forehand or backhand side.

3. Move Your Eyes, Not Your Head

Shifting your head to track the ball can delay shot preparation, causing rushed or off-balance strokes. Train yourself to track the ball with your eyes, keeping your head steady to save valuable milliseconds in your setup.

4. Hit the Ball in Front

Striking the ball in front of your body allows you to keep your head steady and limits the need for last-second adjustments, reducing the likelihood of late hits—especially on your non-dominant side. Lefties, for example, often struggle with weaker backhands for this very reason.

These foundational tips are your “Ball Watching 101.” Start incorporating them to play more consistently and with greater control.

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Game Changers: How Court Surfaces Impact Your Playing Style

One of the Men’s Championship finalists commented that the synthetic grass courts at Manly felt tougher to play on compared to hard courts.
Ever wonder why your game feels effortless on some courts but a bit off on others? The surface underfoot can make all the difference! Here’s a quick guide to how synthetic grass, hard, and clay courts each influence your game—and some strategies to help you adapt and compete on each one.

🟢 Synthetic Grass Courts: Fast & Lower Bounce

Synthetic grass courts are fast and often have a low, skidding bounce, similar to natural grass. This surface favors aggressive play, allowing for shorter points and quick-fire exchanges.
  • Best Playing Style: Serve-and-volley players and net rushers dominate here. The low bounce lets you take control early and rush the net, keeping your opponent on the defensive.
  • Key Strategies: Focus on flat, low shots to keep rallies short. Be ready to take time away from your opponent by closing in on the net and using quick reflexes.
Strategy: Precision on serves and returns is key on synthetic grass. Try hitting low, slicing serves to force weak returns. This surface rewards a “first-strike” mindset—so go for it!

🔵 Hard Courts: Balanced & Predictable

The most common court type, hard courts offer a balanced mix of speed and bounce, making them ideal for players with all-court versatility.
  • Best Playing Style: Hard courts are friendly to all styles—from aggressive baseliners to serve-and-volley players.
  • Key Strategies: Use a combination of power, consistency, and variety. Adapt to your opponent by switching between offense and defense, exploiting the predictable bounce for solid baseline play.
Strategy: Footwork is critical. Rely on controlled, precise movements and adjust quickly to maintain your position. Hard courts reward versatile play, so be ready to switch tactics mid-point.

🟤 Clay Courts: Slow & High Bounce

The slowest surface with a high bounce, clay courts reward patience, endurance, and a tactical approach to point construction.
  • Best Playing Style: Baseline players and counter-punchers thrive here. Heavy topspin and strong defense are crucial to outlasting opponents.
  • Key Strategies: Master topspin shots to control the rally, and use drop shots and lobs to keep your opponent moving and off balance. Sliding is essential to cover the court efficiently and conserve energy.
Strategy: Build points with patience. Use high topspin to push your opponent deep, creating opportunities to attack when they’re out of position. Clay demands endurance, so be prepared for longer, more tactical rallies.
Each surface requires unique skills and adjustments to excel, shaping how you move, strike, and strategize. By adapting your game to the surface, you can boost your performance and embrace the nuances of each court. Whether you’re sliding on clay, powering through on hard, or attacking on synthetic grass, learning to adapt is the key to mastering any surface! 🎾💥
**Note**: Even within the broad categories of synthetic grass, hard courts, and clay, there can be substantial variations in how each surface plays. For instance, the amount of sand used on synthetic grass courts affects speed—more sand generally slows down the play. Hard courts also differ significantly based on the type of coating applied and even the court’s orientation. Courts laid lengthwise versus crosswise can impact speed and ball response, creating unique playing experiences.
The key question is: how can you adapt your game to different surfaces? That’s a topic for another post!

The Nadal Variation

You often talk about the Nadal Variation. What do you mean?
The Nadal Variation is a strategy where Nadal ran around his backhand to hit a powerful forehand cross-court shot.
This strategy allowed Nadal to:
1. Dictate Play with His Forehand: Nadal’s forehand was one of his most lethal weapons, particularly with the heavy topspin he generated. Running around his backhand let him use his dominant stroke to control the rally.
2. Exploit the Opponent’s Weaker Side: By hitting a wide cross-court forehand, Nadal pulled his opponent off the court, often targeting their backhand side, which is typically weaker for most players.
3. Create Space for the Next Shot: By pushing his opponent wide with the cross-court forehand, Nadal opened up the court, allowing him to either attack down the line on the next shot or hit an inside-out forehand to maintain control.
4. Psychological Pressure: This move was a classic Nadal tactic, imposing psychological pressure. Opponents knew that even when they target his backhand side, he could turn it into an offensive play with his forehand, making it difficult to find a safe target.

“You have to be ready to deal with it”: Combating Anxiety on the Court

It can feel like the whole world is caving in when the nerves kick in and the knot in your stomach tightens, when you feel the piercing gaze of the crowd, when you start to shake, sweat and stumble, when your knees start to buckle and your heart begins to beat faster and faster.

But this experience is not unique.

An estimated 31 percent of US adults struggle with anxiety disorder at some point in their lives, so why do athletes feel so alone? According to J.D. DeFreese, an exercise and sport science professor at UNC, this is because the experience of anxiety is individualized.

Ryan Seggerman, a graduate student on the UNC men’s tennis team, said the first step in grappling with anxiety in sports is acknowledging that it can’t be avoided.

“I think (anxiety) is just part of sport in general,” Seggerman said. “You get nervous before matches, you get nervous before big moments. It’s almost a fact. You have to be ready to deal with it.”

Anxiety is a battle that is being fought inside the minds of many athletes. Thanks to a growing dialogue about mental health in athletics, athletes are becoming more comfortable sharing their stories and building up one another.

Brian Cernoch, Seggerman’s teammate and a three-time All-American, said that the way in which he deals with anxiety on the court can make or break a match.

“If you come into a match and you just let the anxiety and fear of losing get to you, it’s going to take over,” Cernoch said. “If you can turn your mind to focusing on something else, focusing on your game point by point, eventually it will go away and you’re going to have a much clearer mind when you’re playing.”

For many, anxiety in athletics comes from within, but for others it comes from somewhere else — or perhaps, someone else. DeFreese said external factors like academics, family or other personal issues can affect athletes’ performances.

Anxiety can also stem from a coach.

“Coaches have a lot of actual power and a lot of perceived power over athletes,” DeFreese said. “They get to decide who gets to play. They decide who plays what positions. How they make those decisions, how they communicate those decisions, the degree to which they make the athlete feel meaningful and valued beyond just playing — coaches can do that in the most positive ways, and coaches can make an athlete not feel very valued outside what they do as a performer.”

Sam Paul has been the head coach of UNC’s men’s tennis team for 30 years. He said he must always be mindful of how his words and actions affect the athletes he coaches.

“You, as a coach, can certainly increase anxiety if you’re not aware of what’s happening around you,” Paul said. “But it’s all about communication.”

Communication. That is what it all boils down to. The stigma around anxiety in athletics has made it difficult for athletes at all levels to come forward and communicate the fact that they are struggling.

Since 2020, NCAA student-athlete well-being studies continue to report that mental health concerns are prevalent among collegiate athletes.

Ben McCormick
April 11, 2023
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Championship Excellence Manly Lawn Club Finals 2024: A Showcase of Strategy and Tenacity

The intensity and drama of finals tennis was on full display during the Manly Lawn Club Championships 2024! By Sunday afternoon, we had crowned some new champions: Andre in Singles, Ollie in Men’s Doubles, and Xander in Mixed Doubles. Luckily, the weather held up beautifully.

Finals Results:
– Singles: Andre defeated Rimmo, 6-4, 6-4.
– Women’s Singles: Ruby edged out Carolina in a thrilling 6-4, 2-6, 6-0.
– Men’s Doubles: Sean and Ollie triumphed over Sven and Andre, 6-3, 7-6.
– Mixed Doubles: Bryanne and Xander bested Lisa and Todd, 6-2, 6-1.

Congratulations to all players on a fantastic finals weekend!

The Women’s Singles final showcased a captivating contrast of styles: Ruby’s powerful windscreen wiper forehands against Carolina’s controlled slice backhands. For two sets, it was youth versus experience in a match of tactics and endurance. Carolina’s remarkable grit and strategic attempts to outplay Ruby’s Western grip style kept us on the edge of their seats, but ultimately, Ruby prevailed as Carolina began to feel the effects of the heat in the third set.

In the Men’s Singles, Andre faced a few hiccups in his opening serve game and in closing out the first set, but he quickly took command. Rimmo put up a valiant fight, holding off numerous break points, but Andre’s relentless pressure eventually took its toll. Andre, the “Big Dog” of the tournament, brought power and a dominant presence that kept opponents on the defensive. While Rimmo tried to turn it into a running game, aiming for a backhand-to-backhand battle, Andre’s compact, well-timed backhand, along with his incredible footwork for a big man, held firm. Andre ultimately had all the answers — on the day. His powerful serve was the deciding factor, as many struggled to play him aggressively. Here’s a helpful link on strategies to tackle a huge server, which could come in handy next time!

The Men’s Doubles final saw the experienced duo of Sean and Ollie come out on top against a scratch pair, Sven and Andre. Sean and Ollie’s classic doubles play, complete with strategic signaling, proved too solid for the scratch pair, although Andre made some impressive crossing volleys. Sean, our Badge 1/1 captain, was exceptional with his reliable returns and is a terrific role model for our younger players, consistently demonstrating great sportsmanship and on-court presence. Despite a brief stumble in the second-set tiebreaker, Ollie closed the match with style, a masterclass in serving under pressure.

And finally, in the Mixed Doubles, Bryanne and Xander overpowered Todd and Lisa. It was unfortunate that Lisa had a wrist injury and couldn’t bring her best game to the court that day. Even so, what really stood out was Bryanne’s undeniable fire in the belly. She’s still got that competitive spark! Maybe it’s the joy of being out there guiding her son, Xander. I like to call her “Momma Bear” because she’s a fierce competitor and such a fantastic role model for our younger players. And ladies, take note—she’s got some serious volley skills!

As they say, tennis was the winner!