Building Lifelong Habits: Lessons from the Seaside Championships

Watching the Seaside Championships this week was a fascinating mix of highs and lows—moments of brilliant play, moments of faltering performance, and, unfortunately, moments of bad behavior that crumbled under the pressure of match play.
These observations serve as a powerful reminder: every action on the court contributes to shaping lifelong habits, for better or worse. When players fail to recognize this, they risk reinforcing patterns that can hinder their development. This lack of awareness may explain why many talented juniors, despite their potential, leave the sport by their late teens. Understanding and managing these habits is essential not just for achieving success in tennis but also for fostering a lifelong passion for the game.
In tennis, as in life, much of what we do is automatic and habitual. Research shows that 40-50% of our behavior is governed by habits—take a moment to let that sink in. Half of what we do happens on autopilot, meaning it’s easy to reinforce bad habits without even realizing it.
From how we approach a serve to how we react to a fast volley or handle high-pressure moments, these ingrained patterns often dictate performance more than raw talent. The key to improvement lies in consciously forming habits that align with our goals. Small, deliberate adjustments—whether in technique, strategy, or mindset—can elevate performance in profound ways. Match play, which is often said to be 90% mental, underscores the importance of incorporating these habits into both practice and competition. By doing so, players can lay the foundation for long-term success and peak performance.
One of the most effective ways to manage and reshape habits is through rituals. Rituals are intentional, structured actions that interrupt automatic behaviors and redirect them toward productive outcomes.
In tennis, rituals can help players regulate emotions, maintain focus, and reinforce positive patterns. For instance, a pre-serve routine—like bouncing the ball a set number of times or taking a deep breath—anchors the mind, reducing anxiety and promoting consistency. Similarly, a post-point ritual, such as adjusting strings or using a towel, creates a mental reset, breaking cycles of frustration and preparing players for the next point. These rituals act as behavioral cues, training players to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively. Over time, they help build habits that enhance performance, resilience, and enjoyment on the court.
The lessons from the Seaside Championships are clear: your habits today define your success tomorrow. By understanding the power of rituals and consciously shaping your patterns, you can develop not only a stronger game but also a deeper connection to the sport.