“You have to be ready to deal with it”: Combating Anxiety on the Court

It can feel like the whole world is caving in when the nerves kick in and the knot in your stomach tightens, when you feel the piercing gaze of the crowd, when you start to shake, sweat and stumble, when your knees start to buckle and your heart begins to beat faster and faster.

But this experience is not unique.

An estimated 31 percent of US adults struggle with anxiety disorder at some point in their lives, so why do athletes feel so alone? According to J.D. DeFreese, an exercise and sport science professor at UNC, this is because the experience of anxiety is individualized.

Ryan Seggerman, a graduate student on the UNC men’s tennis team, said the first step in grappling with anxiety in sports is acknowledging that it can’t be avoided.

“I think (anxiety) is just part of sport in general,” Seggerman said. “You get nervous before matches, you get nervous before big moments. It’s almost a fact. You have to be ready to deal with it.”

Anxiety is a battle that is being fought inside the minds of many athletes. Thanks to a growing dialogue about mental health in athletics, athletes are becoming more comfortable sharing their stories and building up one another.

Brian Cernoch, Seggerman’s teammate and a three-time All-American, said that the way in which he deals with anxiety on the court can make or break a match.

“If you come into a match and you just let the anxiety and fear of losing get to you, it’s going to take over,” Cernoch said. “If you can turn your mind to focusing on something else, focusing on your game point by point, eventually it will go away and you’re going to have a much clearer mind when you’re playing.”

For many, anxiety in athletics comes from within, but for others it comes from somewhere else — or perhaps, someone else. DeFreese said external factors like academics, family or other personal issues can affect athletes’ performances.

Anxiety can also stem from a coach.

“Coaches have a lot of actual power and a lot of perceived power over athletes,” DeFreese said. “They get to decide who gets to play. They decide who plays what positions. How they make those decisions, how they communicate those decisions, the degree to which they make the athlete feel meaningful and valued beyond just playing — coaches can do that in the most positive ways, and coaches can make an athlete not feel very valued outside what they do as a performer.”

Sam Paul has been the head coach of UNC’s men’s tennis team for 30 years. He said he must always be mindful of how his words and actions affect the athletes he coaches.

“You, as a coach, can certainly increase anxiety if you’re not aware of what’s happening around you,” Paul said. “But it’s all about communication.”

Communication. That is what it all boils down to. The stigma around anxiety in athletics has made it difficult for athletes at all levels to come forward and communicate the fact that they are struggling.

Since 2020, NCAA student-athlete well-being studies continue to report that mental health concerns are prevalent among collegiate athletes.

Ben McCormick
April 11, 2023
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Staying Focused Against an Opponent You Dislike Playing

Let’s face it. We just don’t enjoy playing against certain opponents—they can frustrate us, get under our skin, or just make us feel uncomfortable on the court. Some players, unfortunately, are out there just to play mind games!

When facing someone like that, the key is to stay focused and play your game—exactly what they’re trying to disrupt.

Here’s a set of approaches to help you handle these situations:

1. Focus on the Task, Not the Opponent

Concentrate on your game plan and each point, rather than any negative feelings toward the opponent. This keeps your energy channeled into constructive goals, like targeting specific areas on the court or sticking to shot patterns that work. Shifting focus to the task at hand, rather than the opponent, can be incredibly freeing and help keep emotions in check.

2. Label ’em with a Funny Nickname

If you can’t stand an opponent, try using a bit of humor to take the edge off. Give them a lighthearted nickname like “Misery Guts” or “Queen Delay” before stepping on court—it makes them feel a little less intimidating! 

3. Have a Game Plan

Create small, actionable goals for the match, such as aiming for the opponent’s weaker side, positioning yourself effectively at the net, or keeping the ball deep. Having clear objectives pulls your focus back to the game and reduces emotional distractions by replacing them with practical tasks.

4. Stick to Your Rituals

On-court, a 4-7-8 breath before each serve or return can help maintain that focus. Rituals are powerful tools for staying in control of your emotions and keeping distractions at bay.

5. Use Court Positioning to Stay Engaged

Sometimes emotions can take over when we aren’t actively engaged in the point, so maintaining proper court positioning can help. Stay alert to your partner’s movements to stay connected to the play. This promotes a sense of teamwork and keeps you mentally in the moment, preventing focus from drifting to frustrating aspects of the match.

6. Positive Self-Talk

Use positive self-talk to keep confidence high. Phrases like, “Stay strong,” “One point at a time,” or “Stick to the plan,” can counter negative thoughts and help keep emotions from interfering, reinforce confidence and keep your mindset on the game.

With these strategies, you can tackle even the toughest opponents with a focused mindset.

The goal is to stay in control of what you can, letting go of what you can’t, so you can play your best game possible — point by point.

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Managing Match Pressures: Why Teen Tennis Players Struggle and How to Help Them

Back in 2004, Carolyn Anderson was fresh out of university as a psychologist when she competed in taekwondo at the Athens Olympics. She admits now that she was totally unprepared for the intensity of it all. Fast forward twenty years, and she returned to the Olympics, this time as the Australian team psychologist.

Since that time, sports psychology has evolved dramatically.

“At that time, the advice was, ‘You should feel confident, calm, and relaxed,’” Anderson recalls. “But I didn’t feel any of those things. I wasn’t aware of impostor syndrome back then. I’d find myself walking through the Olympic Village thinking, ‘What am I even doing here?’” She believed she had to push those feelings aside. Now, she teaches athletes to make space for them.

“These feelings aren’t bad,” she explains. “We’re human, and they’re going to happen. What’s important is how we deal with them. It’s not about replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. That’s not how it works. It’s more about how we respond to those thoughts.”

Anderson often talks to athletes about the fight-or-flight response. “It’s a reaction that shows up in life-or-death situations, but it also happens at the Olympics. No one’s in danger, but the brain doesn’t know that—it sees it as an emotional threat, not a physical one.”

She adds that it’s pretty common for athletes to feel so anxious before competition that they’re almost sick to their stomachs. “But once you understand what’s going on in your body, you can see it’s actually helping you. It boosts your energy, sharpens your focus, and turns off non-essential systems like digestion.”

“When you start to view these physical reactions as something that’s making you faster, stronger and more efficient, it can be a game-changer.”

Strategies for Teen Tennis Players Inspired by Anderson’s Insights:

1. Embrace the Nerves:

Key Idea: Instead of trying to get rid of prematch anxiety, recognize it as a natural part of competition.
Nerves are a sign that you’re ready. Use practice matches to recreate that pressure, and practice rituals, mindfulness and deep breathing to handle your jitters.

2. Understand Fight-or-Flight:

Key Idea: The body’s fight-or-flight response is preparing itself for competition, it is not something to be feared.
When you notice your heart pounding or your muscles tensing, you should realize it’s your  body gearing up for peak performance. Practice 4-7-8 breathing and visualization to change your mindset when under pressure.

3. Respond to Thoughts, Don’t Replace Them:

Key Idea: It’s okay to have negative thoughts. The goal is to manage them, not block them out.
During practice, acknowledge doubts like “I’m playing badly” and try to respond with “find a way” to adjust your performance with the parts of your game that are working for you on the day.

4. Build a PreMatch Routine:

Key Idea: Create a consistent routine that includes visualization to mentally prepare for tough matches.
Visualize yourself handling different scenarios on court, while also using warm-up exercises to ease yourself into the right headspace before competition.

5. Reframe Physical Reactions:

Key Idea: Understand that sensations like a racing heart or sweaty palms are signs you’re ready to perform, not signs of weakness!
Try to simulate match-day conditions in training, and recognize that your feelings can be viewed as helpful rather than stressful.

6. Combine Mental and Physical Training:

Key Idea: Mental calmness is important, but so is physical readiness, especially through agility and balance.
Perform drills like side shuffles and moving drills to help you keep your feet moving. Consistent footwork training can make sure you remain balanced even in high-pressure moments.

7. Build Mental Resilience by Facing Pressure:

Key Idea: The more players get used to handling pressure in practice, the better they’ll deal with it in real matches.
Practice challenging situations (e.g., tie breaker points, half-court quadrants) to simulate the stress you’ll face during actual competition.

These strategies address both the mental and physical challenges of competitive tennis, helping you become more resilient and adaptable under match pressure.

Precursor article:  Handling Stress on the Court: Why Teenage Tennis Players Struggle and How to Help

Handling Stress on the Court: Why Teenage Tennis Players Struggle and How to Help

In tennis, particularly for teenage players, managing stress during matches can be especially challenging due to the ongoing development of their brain.

The teenage brain is still developing, particularly in areas like emotional regulation, decision-making, and stress management. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for these functions, doesn’t fully mature until the mid-20s. This means that teenage tennis players are still learning to handle pressure, which can affect their performance in high-stakes situations.

Here are several reasons why teens may struggle under pressure in tennis:

  1. Underdeveloped Prefrontal Cortex: The prefrontal cortex helps with planning and making decisions under pressure. Since it’s still maturing, teenage players might struggle to make calm, strategic choices during a tight match, especially when faced with high-pressure situations like a tiebreak or set point.
  2. Stronger Emotional Responses: In stressful match moments, such as facing breakpoints, teenage players may experience heightened emotions because their brain’s emotional center, the amygdala, tends to dominate. This can lead to anxiety or frustration, impacting their ability to remain focused and execute their shots with precision.
  3. Social and Peer Pressure: Teenagers are particularly sensitive to what their peers, coaches, and parents think of their performance. The fear of failing in front of others or not meeting expectations can significantly increase their stress levels during a match, making it harder to stay mentally strong.
  4. Lack of Experience: Compared to adult players, teens haven’t faced as many competitive, high-pressure scenarios on court. As they haven’t yet developed the same level of mental toughness or strategies for coping with match stress, they may struggle to stay composed when facing a tough opponent or when behind in a match.
  5. Hormonal Changes: Adolescents undergo hormonal shifts, which can intensify emotions. This fluctuation can make it harder for a teenage tennis player to stay focused and manage their emotions during intense match situations, further complicating their ability to perform under pressure.

However, with consistent match experience and a little coaching on  proper mental conditioning, teenage players can learn to cope better with pressure.

Incorporating mental strategies such as breathing exercises, visualization techniques, and mindfulness can help them control their emotions and maintain focus during critical moments in a match​​.

Follow on article:  Managing Match Pressures for Teens

Here are a couple of related articles if you’re interested in learning more:

You’re Only as Good as Your Emotions on Court

Psychology: Emotional Regulation

Similar to learning how to stroke the ball and play the game, mastering emotional control on the court is essential to a player’s growth and development. So, embrace the journey, stay composed, and remember that the true victory lies in mastering yourself—it’s a skill for life!