Tennis for Life
I’ve been lucky to spend a long time on the tennis court. And over those decades, I’ve learned that success in this game comes in many forms. It’s not always about rankings or trophies. Sometimes, it’s just about still being out there—moving, competing, and finding joy in the challenge.
In my 20s, I had the good fortune as a young pro to share the court with some of the world’s top 100 players and picked up a few titles along the way. Later, in my late 30s, I moved to the U.S. and somehow ended up as the top-ranked player in the Missouri Valley—proof, perhaps, that persistence can take you places talent alone can’t.
By 50, though, I figured my best tennis was behind me. My legs had lost a step, recovery was slower, and most of my opponents looked like they were playing hooky from high school.
But then came 60—and a bit of a surprise. I started playing the U.S. Nationals and somehow ended up with a No. 1 national doubles ranking. Turns out the real secret to good doubles is to find yourself a great partner! Returning from the U.S. for family reasons, I even snagged our club singles title, becoming its oldest-ever champ. (Granted, the field that year might’ve been thinner than usual.)
Now, in my 70s, here’s the part that still amazes me: I’m not just showing up. I’m still competing.
Mind you, all of this has been under the watchful eye of my toughest coach yet—my own body.
People often ask, “What’s your secret?” Honestly, it’s no secret. It’s a mix of discipline, adaptation, and a bit of good humor. Here’s what’s kept me going—and maybe it’ll help you stay match-ready too.
1. Rethink How You Train
Your body changes, so your training should too. At this stage, it’s not about how hard you push—it’s about how smart you train.
Focus on:
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Proper warm-ups and daily mobility work
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Balance fundamentals: prep step, cross-over step, first-step reaction
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Longer recovery windows between intense workouts
You’re not losing your game—you’re just evolving it.
2. Build a Durable Tennis Engine
Durability beats peak performance when you’re playing the long game.
Try this simple rhythm:
Include in your routine:
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Regular stretching, core strengthening, and hip mobility work to enhance balance, reduce injury risk, and keep your movement fluid and efficient
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Tennis-specific cardio and lateral movement drills to stay sharp
-
Low-impact endurance options like cycling
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Slow, steady strength training—resistance bands are often the preferred tool for maintaining control and reducing joint strain.
3. Make Recovery a Priority
Recovery isn’t what you do after training—it is training.
Build your recovery toolkit:
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Alternate high- and low-intensity days
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Daily stretching, foam rolling, and mobility work
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Prioritize high-quality sleep
The better you recover, the longer you last.
4. Master the Details
It’s the little things that start to matter most.
Tighten up by:
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Prioritizing protein intake to help preserve muscle mass
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Keeping alcohol to a minimum—especially after matches
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Making warm-ups and cool-downs a non-negotiable part of every session
Staying consistent with the basics adds years to your playing life.
5. Use Your Experience
This is where wisdom becomes your edge.
Play the mental game:
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Use controlled 4-7-8 breathing and visualization techniques to stay grounded under pressure
-
Treat your pre-point routine as a ritual—it anchors focus and rhythm
-
Incorporate tools like the tennis ball squeeze to stay calm and composed in high-stress moments
You’re not just hitting the ball anymore—you’re managing the moment.
6. My Secret Weapons: Partners, Pupils, and Plenty of Unsolicited Advice
And giving full credit to —
- Pamela, my beloved, who took up tennis at 50, keeps improving, and now regularly “coaches” me, whether I ask for it or not;
- Coach Tim, whose hitting sessions are every bit as enjoyable as they are effective;
- I’m also deeply grateful to the juniors I’ve had the chance to mentor—nothing keeps you young like their energy and enthusiasm;
- And to all the players I’ve had the privilege of training with—there’s real joy in witnessing those breakthrough moments, and I’d be lying if I said those big smiles didn’t give me a lift too.
Wrap
Playing your best tennis as you age isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about staying nimble, recovering smart, and letting experience take the lead.
With the right habits and mindset, your best years on court might still be ahead of you—though I’ll admit, some days my body and I have different opinions on that!
Next Gen: Tyra Grant
/in Goss, News, TournamentsNext Generation: Tyra Grant Follows Sinner’s Path in Italy
Where Her Tennis Journey Began
Switching Allegiances
Choosing Her Path
What’s Next?
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/in Goss, News, TournamentsZverev’s Blind Spot: The Hidden Flaw Undermining His Game
/in News, Watching, WhispererWhy Zverev Keeps Falling Short: The Blind Spot Holding Him Back
Despite Alexander Zverev’s immense physical gifts, fluid serve, and experience on tour, his latest defeats — capped by a straight-sets loss to Cerundolo in Madrid — highlight a troubling pattern that’s becoming impossible to ignore.
Zverev isn’t just getting outplayed. He’s sabotaging himself.
His own words after Monte Carlo say it all: “I have no idea what’s happening to me.”
The Core Issue: Watching the Ball
At the heart of Zverev’s inconsistency is a deceptively simple, yet devastating flaw:
he doesn’t consistently watch the ball on his forehand.
As this match photo shows, his eyes aren’t fixed on the ball through contact — and he’s hitting off-center. This isn’t just a technical nitpick.
At every level of tennis, over 90% of errors stem from players failing to watch the ball.
And in Zverev’s case, the evidence strongly suggests a visual tracking problem tied to eye dominance. It’s clear he has difficulty maintaining central vision at contact — likely due to his non-dominant eye leading the shot. This creates spatial disconnects, often resulting in mistimed or mishit forehands.
When your eyes shift early — whether to your target or your opponent — timing collapses. Balance falters. Shot quality breaks down. For a player who relies on clean baseline striking, that’s fatal.
Watching & Balance: Silent Killers of Consistency
Zverev, an aggressive baseliner, depends on precise footwork and positioning.
But it all starts with watching the ball.
Footwork isn’t just about speed — it’s about setup. You can’t adjust to what you don’t clearly see.
The moment you stop watching the ball, prep steps get sloppy, spacing suffers, and your balance goes with it.
A Simple Fix That Works
Zverev doesn’t need a swing overhaul.
He needs to retrain his vision and develop new habits around watching the ball with proper eye dominance and depth awareness — especially on his forehand.
This isn’t a minor tweak. It’s the root cause of his inconsistency.
The Big Picture
Until Zverev fixes the BIG thing — consistently watching the ball through contact — the other big things (titles, rankings, confidence) will keep slipping away.
He doesn’t need a new coach. He needs a return to the fundamentals.
Watch the ball. Balance the body. Trust the process.
👉 Click here to learn more about the critical skill of ball watching and how it affects your game.
Boost Your Game on Two Wheels
/in News, Tennis4Life, Training, WhispererTennis for Life: Boost Your Game on Two Wheels
Cycling isn’t just a great way to enjoy the outdoors — it’s also one of the best low-impact methods to build endurance and support your tennis performance. With a little structure, your bike rides can become a powerful cross-training tool that enhances your stamina, recovery, and movement on court.
Why Tennis Players Should Pedal
If you’re a competitive player, you already know how essential endurance is. Long rallies, back-to-back matches, and intense court time demand a strong cardiovascular engine.
Sports scientist Olav Aleksander Bu emphasizes the importance of increasing VO2 max and improving movement efficiency for peak performance — and cycling does both without putting stress on your joints like running can.
How to Turn a Ride Into a Tennis Workout
Start Smart
Begin with short, steady rides — aim for 20 minutes, three times per week. Ride at a pace where you can still hold a conversation. This builds your aerobic base, which is critical for lasting through tough matches.
Build It Out
Gradually extend one ride each week until it reaches 90 minutes. This long, steady effort mirrors the stamina needed to compete through a full three-set match.
Add Hills for Strength
Once a week, include a few gentle hill climbs. Ride up at a moderate, steady pace and coast down to recover. This improves leg strength and on-court endurance without overloading your joints.
Use Intervals to Build Toughness
To mimic the intensity and rest cycles of point play, try this six-week interval plan (one session per week):
Week 1: 5 rounds – 30 seconds hard, 1 minute easy
Week 2: 8 rounds – 30 seconds hard, 30 seconds easy
Week 3: 2 sets of 8 rounds – 30/30, with 5 minutes easy pedaling between sets
Week 4: 8 rounds – 1 minute hard, 2 minutes easy
Week 5: 5 rounds – 2 minutes hard, 2 minutes easy
Week 6: 5 rounds – 3 minutes hard, 3 minutes easy
These structured intervals simulate match conditions and help you recover faster between high-intensity bursts.
Final Serve
This winter, don’t just ride — ride with purpose. Your bike can be more than weekend fun; it can be a key part of your tennis preparation and performance.
Keep pedaling. Keep swinging.
Tennis isn’t just a sport — it’s a lifestyle.
Lessons in Chemistry and Coaching: Sakkari
/in Psychology, WhispererLessons in Chemistry and Coaching: Maria Sakkari
What Players and Coaches Can Learn from Sakkari’s Journey
Never Quit
At 29, Sakkari has faced plenty of low moments — even thoughts of retiring. Yet time after time, she returns to the court with a renewed spirit.
Source: Wikipedia
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Age May Weary Us, But We Evolve
/in News, Psychology, Tennis4LifeAge Does Weary Us: Djoker and the Reality of Getting Older
Aging in Sport: A Collision Between Pride and Physiology
A New Chapter of Resilience
The Universal Lesson for Us All
Unlocking Your Best Tennis: The Power of Ritual and Rhythm
/in Psychology, Rhythm, WhispererRhythm and Ritual: Your Hidden Advantage on the Court
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The U-Bend Advantage: Your Best Tennis Years May Still Be Ahead
/in News, Psychology, Tennis4LifeIt’s True: Your Best Tennis Years May Still Be Ahead
The Economist article “The U-Bend of Life” presents a powerful insight that beautifully echoes the Tennis for Life philosophy—one centered on long-term growth, mental resilience, and finding joy in every stage of your tennis journey.
The U-Bend: What It Means for Tennis Players
At the core of the article is the idea of a U-shaped life satisfaction curve. According to large-scale studies like the General Social Survey (USA), Eurobarometer (Europe), and the Gallup World Poll, people report high happiness in youth, a decline through midlife (with a low point around age 46), and then—surprisingly—a rise in happiness in older age.
Even as energy, sharpness, and appearance naturally decline, happiness tends to increase. Why? It’s not about having more money, fewer responsibilities, or grown-up kids. Researchers found that internal psychological shifts—like improved emotional regulation and conflict resolution—play the biggest role.
How This Applies on Court
This mirrors what many seasoned tennis players discover over time. While younger players may rely on physical dominance and raw energy, experienced players learn to:
Play smarter, not just harder
Stay emotionally balanced under pressure
Maintain better focus and presence
Develop strong routines and rituals
These are the traits that often separate good players from great ones—especially later in life.
Science-Backed Benefits of Positivity
The article also highlights physical and mental benefits tied to happiness:
John Weinman (King’s College London) showed that happier people heal faster.
Sheldon Cohen (Carnegie Mellon) found they’re less likely to get sick.
Economists David Blanchflower and Andrew Oswald discovered that people exposed to something uplifting—like a funny video—boosted performance by 12% on mental tasks.
That kind of data supports what many coaches have known intuitively: a positive, resilient mindset enhances both performance and recovery.
Your Best Tennis Might Still Be Ahead
So whether you’re in your 30s, 50s, or 70s, the takeaway is both hopeful and practical:
From the baseline to the net, and from the early years to the golden ones, tennis is a lifelong pursuit. And if the U-bend holds true, the best part might be just around the corner.
U-Bend Scale
2025 J500 NSW Junior State Championships
/inTournament Announcement: 2025 J500 – NSW Junior State Championships
📅 Dates:
Start: Wednesday, 23 April 2025
End: Sunday, 27 April 2025
📍 Venue:
Sydney Olympic Park
2 Rod Laver Drive, Sydney Olympic Park, NSW
🧑💼 Tournament Director:
Tennis New South Wales
📞 +61 499 564 176
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Match Fit at Any Age: Lessons from a Lifetime on Court
/in News, WhispererTennis for Life
I’ve been lucky to spend a long time on the tennis court. And over those decades, I’ve learned that success in this game comes in many forms. It’s not always about rankings or trophies. Sometimes, it’s just about still being out there—moving, competing, and finding joy in the challenge.
In my 20s, I had the good fortune as a young pro to share the court with some of the world’s top 100 players and picked up a few titles along the way. Later, in my late 30s, I moved to the U.S. and somehow ended up as the top-ranked player in the Missouri Valley—proof, perhaps, that persistence can take you places talent alone can’t.
By 50, though, I figured my best tennis was behind me. My legs had lost a step, recovery was slower, and most of my opponents looked like they were playing hooky from high school.
But then came 60—and a bit of a surprise. I started playing the U.S. Nationals and somehow ended up with a No. 1 national doubles ranking. Turns out the real secret to good doubles is to find yourself a great partner! Returning from the U.S. for family reasons, I even snagged our club singles title, becoming its oldest-ever champ. (Granted, the field that year might’ve been thinner than usual.)
Now, in my 70s, here’s the part that still amazes me: I’m not just showing up. I’m still competing.
Mind you, all of this has been under the watchful eye of my toughest coach yet—my own body.
People often ask, “What’s your secret?” Honestly, it’s no secret. It’s a mix of discipline, adaptation, and a bit of good humor. Here’s what’s kept me going—and maybe it’ll help you stay match-ready too.
1. Rethink How You Train
Your body changes, so your training should too. At this stage, it’s not about how hard you push—it’s about how smart you train.
Focus on:
Proper warm-ups and daily mobility work
Balance fundamentals: prep step, cross-over step, first-step reaction
Longer recovery windows between intense workouts
You’re not losing your game—you’re just evolving it.
2. Build a Durable Tennis Engine
Durability beats peak performance when you’re playing the long game.
Try this simple rhythm:
3 training sessions
2 active recovery days
Repeat consistently for at least 3 months
Include in your routine:
Regular stretching, core strengthening, and hip mobility work to enhance balance, reduce injury risk, and keep your movement fluid and efficient
Tennis-specific cardio and lateral movement drills to stay sharp
Low-impact endurance options like cycling
Slow, steady strength training—resistance bands are often the preferred tool for maintaining control and reducing joint strain.
3. Make Recovery a Priority
Recovery isn’t what you do after training—it is training.
Build your recovery toolkit:
Alternate high- and low-intensity days
Daily stretching, foam rolling, and mobility work
Prioritize high-quality sleep
The better you recover, the longer you last.
4. Master the Details
It’s the little things that start to matter most.
Tighten up by:
Prioritizing protein intake to help preserve muscle mass
Keeping alcohol to a minimum—especially after matches
Making warm-ups and cool-downs a non-negotiable part of every session
Staying consistent with the basics adds years to your playing life.
5. Use Your Experience
This is where wisdom becomes your edge.
Play the mental game:
Use controlled 4-7-8 breathing and visualization techniques to stay grounded under pressure
Treat your pre-point routine as a ritual—it anchors focus and rhythm
Incorporate tools like the tennis ball squeeze to stay calm and composed in high-stress moments
You’re not just hitting the ball anymore—you’re managing the moment.
6. My Secret Weapons: Partners, Pupils, and Plenty of Unsolicited Advice
And giving full credit to —
Wrap
Playing your best tennis as you age isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about staying nimble, recovering smart, and letting experience take the lead.
With the right habits and mindset, your best years on court might still be ahead of you—though I’ll admit, some days my body and I have different opinions on that!
Fast Feet, Strong Game: Why Juniors Should Skip
/in Tennis4Life, Training, WhispererWhy Skipping Helps Your Tennis
Looking for a fun and effective way to boost your tennis fitness? Grab a skip rope. Skipping isn’t just for recess — it’s one of the best ways junior players can build speed, stamina, and sharp footwork.
Skipping helps develop the key qualities every young tennis player needs:
Quick Feet – For faster reactions and direction changes
Better Balance and Rhythm – For smoother, more controlled movement
Stronger Legs – For explosive starts and quick recovery steps
More Stamina – To stay strong through long points and matches
The best part? All you need is a rope and a bit of space.
A Memory That Stuck
Coach Tim reminded me recently how our U.S. training sessions always included skipping. One moment I’ll never forget — Kilmeny powering through 3,000 skips in just 15 minutes. That kind of focus and grit stays with you.
Kilmeny Waterman went on to become a professional tennis player and accomplished coach, with a career spanning the WTA Tour and collegiate coaching at the University of Kansas and University of Wyoming. She was named Big 12 and ITA Central Region Coach of the Year in 2002 and was inducted into the USTA Missouri Valley Hall of Fame in 2019.
Easy Skipping Workouts
Warm-Up Routine
Do 2–3 minutes of easy skipping before hitting the court. Mix in regular skips, side-to-side hops, or single-leg jumps.
Footwork Circuit
Try this skipping set:
20 seconds two-foot skips
20 seconds side skips
20 seconds fast skipping
Rest 1 minute
Repeat 2–3 times
Fun Challenge
Set a timer for 1 minute. How many clean skips can you do? Try to beat your score each week!
Skipping Tips
Keep your skips low and light — just enough to clear the rope
Stay on the balls of your feet, not your heels
Spin the rope with your wrists, not your arms
Try skipping to music to help find your rhythm
Make Skipping a Habit
Want it to stick? Keep your rope somewhere visible — by your tennis bag or near your shoes. Start with just 3 minutes a day. Over time, you’ll move faster, feel stronger, and stay sharper on court.
Skipping isn’t just a warm-up. It’s a simple, powerful tool for better tennis.
So grab your rope — and get skipping.
5 Tennis Habits That Will Make or Break Your Match Focus
/in News, Psychology, Whisperer5 Tennis Habits That Sharpen Your Match Focus
1. Ritualize Your Pre-Point Routine
2. Breathe with Intent
3. Use the Left-Hand Squeeze
4. Anchor Focus with Visual Targets
5. Practice Under Pressure—On Purpose
Wrap
Davidovich Fokina: S— Tennis
/in Goss, News, TournamentsDavidovich Fokina: “Today Was a Very S— Match”
Alejandro Davidovich Fokina didn’t mince words after a chaotic three-set win over Jack Draper at the Monte Carlo Masters: 3-6, 7-6(6), 6-4.
The match was a mess—ten breaks of serve, streaky momentum swings, and missed chances galore.
Despite the win, Davidovich Fokina wasn’t exactly thrilled. He apologized to his team post-match, admitting:
When a Dutch interviewer tried to spin it as “amazing,” the Spaniard shot back:
Draper contributed ten double faults, and both players struggled to convert when in control of points. Instead of long, tactical exchanges, the match devolved into early errors and missed opportunities.
Still, match data showed Davidovich Fokina slightly outperformed his average.
In the end, maybe “s— tennis” is just a matter of perspective.
Aging with Game: Lessons from Golfer Fred Couples
/in News, Tennis4LifeGrace in Motion: What Fred Couples Teaches Tennis Players About Aging with Game
Fred Couples didn’t just play in the 2025 Masters — he embodied it. At 65, Freddie wasn’t chasing a green jacket. He was showing us something even more valuable: how to age with grace, adapt with purpose, and compete with joy.
As competitive tennis players walking our own aging arcs, Fred’s game offers more than nostalgia — it’s a masterclass in longevity, humility, and strategic evolution.
1. Adapt Without Ego
Fred’s bag features a modern twist: four hybrid clubs. Not a sign of fading strength — a sign of strategic wisdom.
🎾 Translation for tennis players?
Switch to a larger racquet head for more forgiveness. Use slice to control pace. Evolve from a power baseliner to a savvy all-court player.
Let go of outdated pride. Honor who you are now. Play the game that fits today’s version of you — not your 25-year-old ghost.
2. Master Footwork, Master the Moment
Fred’s pre-shot routine? Deliberate. Fluid. Calm.
In tennis, your prep step and crossover step are your rhythm — not rushed, but intentional. As aging players, quick explosive moves may diminish, but small, balanced, coordinated steps can still win points.
Footwork isn’t just about speed — it’s about efficiency and positioning.
3. Balance Over Brute Force
Fred’s swing isn’t fast — it’s flawlessly balanced.
In tennis, balance is everything. It enables control without excess energy and enhances shot accuracy. It’s also your anchor during mental storms, helping avoid overreaching or unraveling in big moments.
Train it. Honor it. Build everything from it.
4. Build Resilient Habits
Fred’s rituals — lean on the club, light banter, relaxed swings — are more than quirks. They’re anchors.
Channel James Clear’s Atomic Habits:
Make warmups obvious (shoes by the door).
Make drills attractive (music, good vibes).
Make routines easy (short & frequent).
Make practices satisfying (celebrate tiny wins).
Don’t play harder. Play smarter.
5. Play, Don’t Perform
Fred smiled at the crowd, kissed his hybrid club, and played with the course — not against it.
As we get older in tennis, this mindset matters more:
Compete, but enjoy it.
Play hard, but stay loose.
Play to win, but enjoy the rally.
Performance fades. Joy lasts.
The Takeaway?
Fred didn’t win the Masters — but he beat time, at least for a few rounds. And in doing so, reminded us that the sport isn’t about how hard you hit or how fast you move.
It’s about how well you play the hand you’re holding.
So here’s to:
Prep steps with purpose
Clear thoughts under pressure
Rituals that center us
And a love for this game that never fades
Just like Fred. 🎾