Out of the Doldrums: Stefanos Tsitsipas
Every tennis player knows the feeling.
Your game flattens. Your motivation dips. Shots that once sang off your strings now thud into the net.
You’ve hit the doldrums—no wind in your sails, no spark in your step.
But what separates champions from the rest isn’t immunity to these phases—
it’s how they rise from them.
Tsitsipas: From Stalled to Surging
Stefanos Tsitsipas knows this terrain well.
Once hailed as a future world No. 1, the Greek star watched his ascent slowed—first by the legends (Federer, Nadal, Djokovic), then by the meteoric rise of Sinner and Alcaraz. His results dipped. Confidence wavered. Internal tension brewed.
But now, as he returns to Monte Carlo and the crushed red clay that shaped his game, Tsitsipas isn’t just chasing wins.
He’s crafting a rebirth.
“A cleansing of the soul,” he once said about stepping onto a freshly swept clay court.
It’s more than poetic. It’s deeply personal.
Clay gives him peace. It’s where he feels most at home—and most himself.
Rebuild. Reconnect. Rise.
This spring, Tsitsipas arrives in Monaco with a fresh outlook:
“It just feels good playing, regardless of what’s gonna happen,” he shared.
“It feels good trying to find a solution, trying to fight on the court, being out there, in my playground.”
This isn’t surface-level optimism—it’s rooted in real change.
The Courage to Evolve
After parting ways with his longtime coach and father, Apostolos, Tsitsipas started from scratch. He reconnected with his childhood mentor. He brought family into his fitness team. He tackled technical flaws—reworking his backhand return and tweaking his serve.
And for the first time in nearly a decade, he made the bold decision to switch rackets.
Likely moving to the Babolat Pure Aero 98, the change gave him better control, more power, and fresh confidence.
“It’s a courageous change,” said new coach Dimitris Chatzinikolaou.
“And that courage comes with rewards.”
The results followed.
In Dubai, Tsitsipas captured his first title in over a year—not by overpowering, but by outlasting players like Berrettini and Khachanov in gritty, pressure-packed matches.
A Blueprint for Change
His story mirrors the principles from Atomic Habits by James Clear.
True transformation comes not from grand gestures, but from consistent, small changes:
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Make it Obvious: New gear, new team, new rituals
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Make it Attractive: Reconnect with the past, rediscover the surface
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Make it Easy: Simplify technique, trust routines
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Make it Satisfying: Play with joy, not just for results
Your Move
Tsitsipas isn’t promising titles. He’s not chasing perfection.
He’s rediscovering love for the game—on the court that raised him.
That’s the real win.
And maybe, just maybe, it’s the message we all need.
When your tennis—or your life—feels stuck…
Change a drill.
Refresh your routine.
Find a cue.
Trust the process.
The doldrums aren’t the end. They’re the pause before momentum returns.
And like Tsitsipas, your playground might still hold magic.
Lessons in Chemistry and Coaching: Sakkari
/in Psychology, WhispererLessons in Chemistry and Coaching: Maria Sakkari
What Players and Coaches Can Learn from Sakkari’s Journey
Never Quit
At 29, Sakkari has faced plenty of low moments — even thoughts of retiring. Yet time after time, she returns to the court with a renewed spirit.
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Age May Weary Us, But We Evolve
/in News, Psychology, Tennis4LifeAge Does Weary Us: Djoker and the Reality of Getting Older
Aging in Sport: A Collision Between Pride and Physiology
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Unlocking Your Best Tennis: The Power of Ritual and Rhythm
/in Psychology, Rhythm, WhispererRhythm and Ritual: Your Hidden Advantage on the Court
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The U-Bend Advantage: Your Best Tennis Years May Still Be Ahead
/in News, Psychology, Tennis4LifeIt’s True: Your Best Tennis Years May Still Be Ahead
The Economist article “The U-Bend of Life” presents a powerful insight that beautifully echoes the Tennis for Life philosophy—one centered on long-term growth, mental resilience, and finding joy in every stage of your tennis journey.
The U-Bend: What It Means for Tennis Players
At the core of the article is the idea of a U-shaped life satisfaction curve. According to large-scale studies like the General Social Survey (USA), Eurobarometer (Europe), and the Gallup World Poll, people report high happiness in youth, a decline through midlife (with a low point around age 46), and then—surprisingly—a rise in happiness in older age.
Even as energy, sharpness, and appearance naturally decline, happiness tends to increase. Why? It’s not about having more money, fewer responsibilities, or grown-up kids. Researchers found that internal psychological shifts—like improved emotional regulation and conflict resolution—play the biggest role.
How This Applies on Court
This mirrors what many seasoned tennis players discover over time. While younger players may rely on physical dominance and raw energy, experienced players learn to:
Play smarter, not just harder
Stay emotionally balanced under pressure
Maintain better focus and presence
Develop strong routines and rituals
These are the traits that often separate good players from great ones—especially later in life.
Science-Backed Benefits of Positivity
The article also highlights physical and mental benefits tied to happiness:
John Weinman (King’s College London) showed that happier people heal faster.
Sheldon Cohen (Carnegie Mellon) found they’re less likely to get sick.
Economists David Blanchflower and Andrew Oswald discovered that people exposed to something uplifting—like a funny video—boosted performance by 12% on mental tasks.
That kind of data supports what many coaches have known intuitively: a positive, resilient mindset enhances both performance and recovery.
Your Best Tennis Might Still Be Ahead
So whether you’re in your 30s, 50s, or 70s, the takeaway is both hopeful and practical:
From the baseline to the net, and from the early years to the golden ones, tennis is a lifelong pursuit. And if the U-bend holds true, the best part might be just around the corner.
U-Bend Scale
2025 J500 NSW Junior State Championships
/inTournament Announcement: 2025 J500 – NSW Junior State Championships
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End: Sunday, 27 April 2025
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Match Fit at Any Age: Lessons from a Lifetime on Court
/in News, WhispererTennis for Life
I’ve been lucky to spend a long time on the tennis court. And over those decades, I’ve learned that success in this game comes in many forms. It’s not always about rankings or trophies. Sometimes, it’s just about still being out there—moving, competing, and finding joy in the challenge.
In my 20s, I had the good fortune as a young pro to share the court with some of the world’s top 100 players and picked up a few titles along the way. Later, in my late 30s, I moved to the U.S. and somehow ended up as the top-ranked player in the Missouri Valley—proof, perhaps, that persistence can take you places talent alone can’t.
By 50, though, I figured my best tennis was behind me. My legs had lost a step, recovery was slower, and most of my opponents looked like they were playing hooky from high school.
But then came 60—and a bit of a surprise. I started playing the U.S. Nationals and somehow ended up with a No. 1 national doubles ranking. Turns out the real secret to good doubles is to find yourself a great partner! Returning from the U.S. for family reasons, I even snagged our club singles title, becoming its oldest-ever champ. (Granted, the field that year might’ve been thinner than usual.)
Now, in my 70s, here’s the part that still amazes me: I’m not just showing up. I’m still competing.
Mind you, all of this has been under the watchful eye of my toughest coach yet—my own body.
People often ask, “What’s your secret?” Honestly, it’s no secret. It’s a mix of discipline, adaptation, and a bit of good humor. Here’s what’s kept me going—and maybe it’ll help you stay match-ready too.
1. Rethink How You Train
Your body changes, so your training should too. At this stage, it’s not about how hard you push—it’s about how smart you train.
Focus on:
Proper warm-ups and daily mobility work
Balance fundamentals: prep step, cross-over step, first-step reaction
Longer recovery windows between intense workouts
You’re not losing your game—you’re just evolving it.
2. Build a Durable Tennis Engine
Durability beats peak performance when you’re playing the long game.
Try this simple rhythm:
3 training sessions
2 active recovery days
Repeat consistently for at least 3 months
Include in your routine:
Regular stretching, core strengthening, and hip mobility work to enhance balance, reduce injury risk, and keep your movement fluid and efficient
Tennis-specific cardio and lateral movement drills to stay sharp
Low-impact endurance options like cycling
Slow, steady strength training—resistance bands are often the preferred tool for maintaining control and reducing joint strain.
3. Make Recovery a Priority
Recovery isn’t what you do after training—it is training.
Build your recovery toolkit:
Alternate high- and low-intensity days
Daily stretching, foam rolling, and mobility work
Prioritize high-quality sleep
The better you recover, the longer you last.
4. Master the Details
It’s the little things that start to matter most.
Tighten up by:
Prioritizing protein intake to help preserve muscle mass
Keeping alcohol to a minimum—especially after matches
Making warm-ups and cool-downs a non-negotiable part of every session
Staying consistent with the basics adds years to your playing life.
5. Use Your Experience
This is where wisdom becomes your edge.
Play the mental game:
Use controlled 4-7-8 breathing and visualization techniques to stay grounded under pressure
Treat your pre-point routine as a ritual—it anchors focus and rhythm
Incorporate tools like the tennis ball squeeze to stay calm and composed in high-stress moments
You’re not just hitting the ball anymore—you’re managing the moment.
6. My Secret Weapons: Partners, Pupils, and Plenty of Unsolicited Advice
And giving full credit to —
Wrap
Playing your best tennis as you age isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about staying nimble, recovering smart, and letting experience take the lead.
With the right habits and mindset, your best years on court might still be ahead of you—though I’ll admit, some days my body and I have different opinions on that!
Fast Feet, Strong Game: Why Juniors Should Skip
/in Tennis4Life, Training, WhispererWhy Skipping Helps Your Tennis
Looking for a fun and effective way to boost your tennis fitness? Grab a skip rope. Skipping isn’t just for recess — it’s one of the best ways junior players can build speed, stamina, and sharp footwork.
Skipping helps develop the key qualities every young tennis player needs:
Quick Feet – For faster reactions and direction changes
Better Balance and Rhythm – For smoother, more controlled movement
Stronger Legs – For explosive starts and quick recovery steps
More Stamina – To stay strong through long points and matches
The best part? All you need is a rope and a bit of space.
A Memory That Stuck
Coach Tim reminded me recently how our U.S. training sessions always included skipping. One moment I’ll never forget — Kilmeny powering through 3,000 skips in just 15 minutes. That kind of focus and grit stays with you.
Kilmeny Waterman went on to become a professional tennis player and accomplished coach, with a career spanning the WTA Tour and collegiate coaching at the University of Kansas and University of Wyoming. She was named Big 12 and ITA Central Region Coach of the Year in 2002 and was inducted into the USTA Missouri Valley Hall of Fame in 2019.
Easy Skipping Workouts
Warm-Up Routine
Do 2–3 minutes of easy skipping before hitting the court. Mix in regular skips, side-to-side hops, or single-leg jumps.
Footwork Circuit
Try this skipping set:
20 seconds two-foot skips
20 seconds side skips
20 seconds fast skipping
Rest 1 minute
Repeat 2–3 times
Fun Challenge
Set a timer for 1 minute. How many clean skips can you do? Try to beat your score each week!
Skipping Tips
Keep your skips low and light — just enough to clear the rope
Stay on the balls of your feet, not your heels
Spin the rope with your wrists, not your arms
Try skipping to music to help find your rhythm
Make Skipping a Habit
Want it to stick? Keep your rope somewhere visible — by your tennis bag or near your shoes. Start with just 3 minutes a day. Over time, you’ll move faster, feel stronger, and stay sharper on court.
Skipping isn’t just a warm-up. It’s a simple, powerful tool for better tennis.
So grab your rope — and get skipping.
5 Tennis Habits That Will Make or Break Your Match Focus
/in News, Psychology, Whisperer5 Tennis Habits That Sharpen Your Match Focus
1. Ritualize Your Pre-Point Routine
2. Breathe with Intent
3. Use the Left-Hand Squeeze
4. Anchor Focus with Visual Targets
5. Practice Under Pressure—On Purpose
Wrap
Davidovich Fokina: S— Tennis
/in Goss, News, TournamentsDavidovich Fokina: “Today Was a Very S— Match”
Alejandro Davidovich Fokina didn’t mince words after a chaotic three-set win over Jack Draper at the Monte Carlo Masters: 3-6, 7-6(6), 6-4.
The match was a mess—ten breaks of serve, streaky momentum swings, and missed chances galore.
Despite the win, Davidovich Fokina wasn’t exactly thrilled. He apologized to his team post-match, admitting:
When a Dutch interviewer tried to spin it as “amazing,” the Spaniard shot back:
Draper contributed ten double faults, and both players struggled to convert when in control of points. Instead of long, tactical exchanges, the match devolved into early errors and missed opportunities.
Still, match data showed Davidovich Fokina slightly outperformed his average.
In the end, maybe “s— tennis” is just a matter of perspective.
Aging with Game: Lessons from Golfer Fred Couples
/in News, Tennis4LifeGrace in Motion: What Fred Couples Teaches Tennis Players About Aging with Game
Fred Couples didn’t just play in the 2025 Masters — he embodied it. At 65, Freddie wasn’t chasing a green jacket. He was showing us something even more valuable: how to age with grace, adapt with purpose, and compete with joy.
As competitive tennis players walking our own aging arcs, Fred’s game offers more than nostalgia — it’s a masterclass in longevity, humility, and strategic evolution.
1. Adapt Without Ego
Fred’s bag features a modern twist: four hybrid clubs. Not a sign of fading strength — a sign of strategic wisdom.
🎾 Translation for tennis players?
Switch to a larger racquet head for more forgiveness. Use slice to control pace. Evolve from a power baseliner to a savvy all-court player.
Let go of outdated pride. Honor who you are now. Play the game that fits today’s version of you — not your 25-year-old ghost.
2. Master Footwork, Master the Moment
Fred’s pre-shot routine? Deliberate. Fluid. Calm.
In tennis, your prep step and crossover step are your rhythm — not rushed, but intentional. As aging players, quick explosive moves may diminish, but small, balanced, coordinated steps can still win points.
Footwork isn’t just about speed — it’s about efficiency and positioning.
3. Balance Over Brute Force
Fred’s swing isn’t fast — it’s flawlessly balanced.
In tennis, balance is everything. It enables control without excess energy and enhances shot accuracy. It’s also your anchor during mental storms, helping avoid overreaching or unraveling in big moments.
Train it. Honor it. Build everything from it.
4. Build Resilient Habits
Fred’s rituals — lean on the club, light banter, relaxed swings — are more than quirks. They’re anchors.
Channel James Clear’s Atomic Habits:
Make warmups obvious (shoes by the door).
Make drills attractive (music, good vibes).
Make routines easy (short & frequent).
Make practices satisfying (celebrate tiny wins).
Don’t play harder. Play smarter.
5. Play, Don’t Perform
Fred smiled at the crowd, kissed his hybrid club, and played with the course — not against it.
As we get older in tennis, this mindset matters more:
Compete, but enjoy it.
Play hard, but stay loose.
Play to win, but enjoy the rally.
Performance fades. Joy lasts.
The Takeaway?
Fred didn’t win the Masters — but he beat time, at least for a few rounds. And in doing so, reminded us that the sport isn’t about how hard you hit or how fast you move.
It’s about how well you play the hand you’re holding.
So here’s to:
Prep steps with purpose
Clear thoughts under pressure
Rituals that center us
And a love for this game that never fades
Just like Fred. 🎾
Massage and the Tennis for Life Mindset
/in News, Recovery, Tennis4LifeWhy Recovery Is More Than Muscle Relief
The article “Massage Can Help After a Workout, But Not for the Reason You Think” by Christie Aschwanden fits seamlessly into the Tennis for Life ethos. It presents recovery as a thoughtful, long-term practice—an essential part of athletic sustainability, not a quick fix.
Let’s explore how this message aligns with the core values of lifelong tennis performance and well-being.
1. Reframing Recovery: From Myth to Mindful Practice
The article dismantles a common misconception: massage doesn’t flush out lactic acid or significantly boost circulation. These myths aren’t grounded in scientific evidence.
Instead, Tennis for Life focuses on recovery strategies that are both evidence-based and sustainable. Massage, while offering modest physical benefits, plays a key role in stress relief, relaxation, and body awareness—all of which are essential for managing post-match fatigue or re-centering after tough competition.
2. Mental Benefits Outweigh Marginal Physical Gains
Dr. Shona Halson, an expert in recovery science, emphasizes that the real power of massage lies in its ability to promote mental calm and emotional reset. In a sport like tennis—where focus, resilience, and emotional control are critical—this kind of recovery is not optional, it’s strategic.
When integrated with tools like breathwork, mindfulness, and visualization routines, massage becomes part of a high-performance mental toolkit.
3. Recovery for Older Athletes and Long-Term Play
As players age, their recovery strategies must evolve. Massage offers a low-impact method to aid relaxation, regulate the nervous system, and preserve mobility.
Think of it like BOSU training for balance—it’s not flashy, but it’s foundational. These routines build the durability needed to keep moving well, deep into your playing years.
4. The Emotional Reset Factor
Recovery isn’t just physical—it’s psychological. For juniors climbing the ranks or adults grinding through weekend matches, massage can serve as an emotional release valve.
As Dr. Halson puts it, massage creates space to “debrief and unload.” That clarity can be the difference between a downward spiral and a reset that prepares you for the next match.
Wrap
Massage may not drastically reduce soreness or enhance muscle repair, but it plays an undeniable role in how you feel, how you focus, and how long you stay in the game.
For athletes committed to Tennis for Life, it’s a recovery strategy worth prioritizing.
The Tennis Player’s Toolbox – Lessons from Scottie Scheffler
/in News, WhispererThe Tennis Player’s Toolbox
Imagine stepping onto the court—not with a rigid game plan, but with a toolbox.
Each drawer holds a skill, strategy, or mental cue, perfectly suited to whatever challenge the match throws your way.
It’s the approach that World No. 1 golfer Scottie Scheffler uses to conquer Augusta National. And it’s exactly the mindset advanced tennis players should adopt.
Play What the Moment Demands
Scheffler’s brilliance lies not just in consistency—but in strategic versatility.
Facing Augusta’s swirling winds and complex greens, he doesn’t force his favorite shot. He reads the situation and selects the right tool: a soft fade, a one-hop chip, or a conservative line.
Tennis players need the same adaptability.
Take a cue from Andrea’s playbook: be ready to shift the ball’s speed, height, and spin. Stop forcing shots. Start selecting the right response for the moment.
Stop Forcing. Start Selecting.
Tennis is fluid. The conditions shift—wind, surface, opponent, fatigue.
Great players adapt. They don’t cling to a pre-set plan. They read, respond, and apply. That’s the power of having a toolbox.
A toolbox player doesn’t rely on just one game style.
They can be an aggressive baseliner or a savvy net rusher. They mix in drop shots, lobs, and spin variations, always tailoring tactics to the opponent—not their ego.
Build Your Physical Tools
Footwork is more than just speed. It’s about movement options.
Train your crossover steps to stay balanced under pressure.
Sharpen your split-step timing for explosive reactions.
Master multi-directional movement to reach tough balls with poise and control.
These tools won’t just make you faster.
They’ll make you more effective.
Mental Tools Matter More Than You Think
Scheffler doesn’t just manage Augusta’s layout.
He manages himself—with a calm, focused, purposeful mindset.
You need the same mental toolbox:
Visualization before critical points
Controlled breathing to reset under pressure
The tennis ball squeeze to prevent choking
Pre-point routines to center your focus
These aren’t extras.
They’re essentials.
Stack Habits with Purpose
James Clear’s Atomic Habits gives us the blueprint:
Build your tools into automatic systems.
Stack rituals into your daily rhythm.
Create cues, simplify execution, and reward consistency.
That’s how real transformation happens.
Play Like a Pro
You don’t win matches with one perfect stroke.
You win them with the right shot at the right time.
Just like Scheffler, you need every tool sharp—
Physical. Tactical. Psychological.
Because whether it’s Augusta National or a Badge Match at Manly, the game doesn’t wait.
Show up prepared.
Solve the puzzle.
Win the match.
How the Slice Serve Helps Aging or Injured Shoulders
/in News, Serve, Tennis4LifeWhy the Slice Serve Becomes Your Best Friend as You Age
As the years add up—or after decades of competitive play—our bodies start to speak up.
The shoulders, in particular, often bear the brunt of wear and tear.
That classic high-toss, overhead serve? It can begin to feel more like a liability than a weapon.
But here’s the good news: you don’t have to give up on serving effectively.
The slice serve offers a smart, efficient, and body-friendly alternative that delivers results—even as mobility declines.
Why the Slice Serve Works for Aging Players or Shoulder Limitations
The slice serve is a long-term ally.
It reduces physical strain by minimizing the need for full shoulder elevation and using a lower toss. Instead of driving upward, it shifts the workload to torso rotation and edge control.
Rather than attacking the ball from above, you glide across the outside, producing sidespin that curves wide or jams your opponent.
The result?
A serve that’s easier on your joints—and tougher for your opponent to read and return.
The Basics of the Slice Serve
To make the slice serve a go-to weapon, dial in these fundamentals:
Use a continental grip
Toss the ball slightly to your dominant side and just in front
Lead the swing with the racket edge around the 3 o’clock position
Brush across the ball from right to left (for right-handers)
Let your follow-through wrap across your body naturally
This lateral motion not only reduces shoulder stress, but it also creates a low, skidding bounce that’s particularly effective:
Out wide on the deuce side
Into the body on the ad side
Smart, Surgical Tennis That Ages Well
The slice serve isn’t just about physical relief—it’s a tactical upgrade.
It sets up first-strike opportunities, disrupts rhythm, and gives you control—without needing raw power or extensive shoulder mobility.
This is the heart of high-percentage tennis:
Precision over power. Efficiency over strain.
As your game evolves, the slice serve helps you stay sharp, strategic, and sustainable—for many more matches to come.
Out of the Doldrums
/in News, Psychology, WhispererOut of the Doldrums: Stefanos Tsitsipas
Every tennis player knows the feeling.
Your game flattens. Your motivation dips. Shots that once sang off your strings now thud into the net.
You’ve hit the doldrums—no wind in your sails, no spark in your step.
But what separates champions from the rest isn’t immunity to these phases—
it’s how they rise from them.
Tsitsipas: From Stalled to Surging
Stefanos Tsitsipas knows this terrain well.
Once hailed as a future world No. 1, the Greek star watched his ascent slowed—first by the legends (Federer, Nadal, Djokovic), then by the meteoric rise of Sinner and Alcaraz. His results dipped. Confidence wavered. Internal tension brewed.
But now, as he returns to Monte Carlo and the crushed red clay that shaped his game, Tsitsipas isn’t just chasing wins.
He’s crafting a rebirth.
It’s more than poetic. It’s deeply personal.
Clay gives him peace. It’s where he feels most at home—and most himself.
Rebuild. Reconnect. Rise.
This spring, Tsitsipas arrives in Monaco with a fresh outlook:
A new racket
A new coach
A new mindset
And most importantly, a new joy
This isn’t surface-level optimism—it’s rooted in real change.
The Courage to Evolve
After parting ways with his longtime coach and father, Apostolos, Tsitsipas started from scratch. He reconnected with his childhood mentor. He brought family into his fitness team. He tackled technical flaws—reworking his backhand return and tweaking his serve.
And for the first time in nearly a decade, he made the bold decision to switch rackets.
Likely moving to the Babolat Pure Aero 98, the change gave him better control, more power, and fresh confidence.
The results followed.
In Dubai, Tsitsipas captured his first title in over a year—not by overpowering, but by outlasting players like Berrettini and Khachanov in gritty, pressure-packed matches.
A Blueprint for Change
His story mirrors the principles from Atomic Habits by James Clear.
True transformation comes not from grand gestures, but from consistent, small changes:
Make it Obvious: New gear, new team, new rituals
Make it Attractive: Reconnect with the past, rediscover the surface
Make it Easy: Simplify technique, trust routines
Make it Satisfying: Play with joy, not just for results
Your Move
Tsitsipas isn’t promising titles. He’s not chasing perfection.
He’s rediscovering love for the game—on the court that raised him.
That’s the real win.
And maybe, just maybe, it’s the message we all need.
When your tennis—or your life—feels stuck…
Change a drill.
Refresh your routine.
Find a cue.
Trust the process.
The doldrums aren’t the end. They’re the pause before momentum returns.
And like Tsitsipas, your playground might still hold magic.